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Parenting Lessons: Things to Say and Not to Say to Your Child

Parenting is a full-time job which can be verty difficult at times. But despite that, it can't be unmatched because of the reward that comes from it. Having responsibility over a life and knowing you are leading them to be the best person they can be is something many parents treasure fir their whole life. That is why it is very important for them to be able to know the right things to say and not say to their kids to guide them to become responsible and wonderful citizens. So to help parents with this, here are some tips:

Things to Say

• “I love you”. Parents need to give their kids their unconditional love. So it is very important for parents to always say these three magic words to their kids, no matter what people say about action speaking louder than words, to remind kids of how you feel about them. Giving the proper affection to your kids, even in words, will go a long way and is something that is great in the long run.

• “Thank you”. Not just because you are the parent means that you don’t have to show your gratitude when your kids have done something for you. This not only allows them to learn how to say "thank you", but also give them a morale boost because it shows how much you appreciate the things they do, no matter how simple.

• “Great job”. Kids always seek approval from their parents. No matter if it is things they will do or things they have already done. So it is very important for parents to show their kids that they appreciate the good things they did, no matter how small it is, so they will continue doing them. Giving them positive reinforcement all the time will go a long way in teaching them how to be good people.

Things Not to Say

• “I am the parent/adult, so I am right”. This is a common mistakes for parents because they think they are above their children. This attitude of arrogance and selfishness is something that is not needed if you want to teach your kid about right and wrong. It doesn't follow that you are always right because you are the adult. YOu should also learn how to listen to your kids and hear they out when they have something to say. By learning how to talk to children, you can learn more about them instead of always showing them that you are the superior, which will help them become the best persons they can be.

• “Do as I say, not as I do”. Kids are like sponges, they absorb everything they see or hear from other people especially their parents. And saying this to your kids is very much like saying it to a deaf person; they will just not understand you. That is why instead of telling them what to do, parents should just show their kids the things that they should be doing and not doing. You want them to stop doing something, then don't let them see you doing it yourself. It may be a cliché, but it is definitely right to just practice what you preach.

• “No”. It's true that it is not healthy to always say yesy to your kids, however saying no all the time will also teach them negativ lessons. If you cannot avoid saying no to them, try thinking of a more positive way to do it.

Kids are very sensitive, especially on their earlier stages. So it is very important for parents to know what to say and not to say to them. This list is just a start, but hopefully it can help many parents in their journey as the shapers of the future generation's citizens.
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